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"All your sisters finished studying only one you do not," "All your sisters have gone to her husband and you are constantly changing boyfriends, etc. These and other comparisons to our brothers and sisters are born in our frustration, depression, anger and sadness. Make us feel inferior, less valuable, less loved, and not so great as our sisters and brothers. Comparing results also found that as children begin to feel the rejection and not to accept us as we are by our parents, so we feel unloved by the most important and closest people to us. And based on the mental health of a child is love and acceptance parents. Child feel loved when they know that parents love it as it is, with its limitations, flaws and shortcomings.

These are the conditions necessary to satisfy the normal development of psychological and emotional child. As shown by numerous psychological studies, "Children who are comparing to the detriment of his siblings, born of a sense of lower values, which then is the basis for building self-underestimation in adult life" (research psychologists in the U.S.). Let's look at what could lead to continuous Critical comparison with siblings in the lives of children and adults.

For children who are comparing to the detriment of his siblings are born with psychological difficulties are the following:

• Difficulty in social functioning, which leads to withdrawal from relationships with peers, shyness, sense of loss, often hyperactivity, aggressive behavior and fighting with siblings for attention and praise of their parents.
• Difficulties in school that is primarily because the problems with concentration, memory and difficulties in material science.
• emotional problems, which are reflected in the fears, sadness, tendency to isolationism, isolation from other children or, conversely, irritation and nervousness.
• psychosomatic symptoms, which are characterized by the most: abdominal pain, headache, vomiting, syncope, difficulty sleeping and a wetting.