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Being alone is nothing wrong, loneliness is often needed, and even enjoyable. When we are alone together, we have time to relax, think about their problems peacefully, and sometimes read, listen to music or simply sit in silence. Good privacy decide themselves, desire it and we look forward to it, evil comes unsolicited and can not deal with it themselves.

Makes us feel rejected, useless, we lose a sense of security. Once was close to the person next to us, now sitting in someone completely alien. We wonder: "How is it that a man who so much loved, with whom I could out-talk a few hours, today there is nothing to say to me, I do not know how he feels and thinks?" Being alone is nothing wrong, loneliness is often needed, and even enjoyable. When we are alone together, we have time to relax, think about their problems peacefully, and sometimes read, listen to music or simply sit in silence. Good privacy decide themselves, desire it and we look forward to it, evil comes unsolicited and can not deal with it themselves. Makes us feel rejected, useless, we lose a sense of security. Once was close to the person next to us, now sitting in someone completely alien. We wonder: "How is it that a man who so much loved, with whom I could out-talk a few hours, today there is nothing to say to me, I do not know how he feels and thinks?" Birth of loneliness At the beginning of each connection we are interested, attentive, we could do a lot to be together. Forget that the association is not given to us once and for all, but if we cared about each other, it turns off. Meanwhile, in the morning we do not have time to talk, because I need to send children to school and fly to work. Then, we face household responsibilities, in the evening we are tired and we dream only of the dream. We just enough time to discuss with a partner, at most, matters relating to children and home. Do not say you what we feel and what we want. And at some point between now and pass the kitchen and hallway. Why do people who are loved, they become two lonely islands?

There may be several reasons. One of these patterns are learned from their homes. If you have not experienced it attention, closeness and understanding, then we have problems with the favor of those feelings in their relationships. Another reason is the expectation that it will always be longer as at the beginning and therefore do not need to put in any effort. Partners thought: After all the love, so we'll be together forever. A time to feel disappointed that it did not him as ever, and it does not help her at home, do not bring flowers and compliments do not righteous. Wager on who is doing what the family and we both feel harmed. At the same time can not express their feelings. Offended and expect that the partner guess what they mean. Recognize the first signs of It is important to recognize the initial symptoms of the crisis. A red light should not light up when the matter go side by side, but at the time of the first quarrel with scattered socks and quiet days. But then it seems to us that he had nothing bad happens, that such moments are due to normal. Only that the difficult times is more and more, and at one point dominated. And finally, even stop to talk to each other. Increasingly, and therefore resorted to the house where no one is expecting us. It turns out that we have a multitude of work, missions, and really looking for opportunity, not to return to the emptiness. It should seek professional help when we see that we have more and more difficult to communicate that is increasingly looking for a springboard and refuge. Meanwhile, being in relation is not only the common driving home and fixing issues related to children, but also on understanding and emotional bond. If you do not, start to feel the emptiness that we often fill addictions, or looking for fulfillment outside the relationship and comes to betrayal.